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Demisexual people only feel sexually attracted to someone when they have an emotional bond with the person. They can be gay, straight, bisexual, or pansexual, and may have any gender identity. Demisexuality can be a type of graysexuality. Demisexual people do not feel primary attraction — the attraction you feel to someone when you first meet them. They only feel secondary attraction — the type of attraction that happens after knowing someone for a while. Demisexuality is the only name for the need to have a connection with someone before feeling attraction.

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When OkCupid expanded the available gender and orientation options, we realized there was a larger conversation taking place. Here are descriptions from those who claim these words for themselves. Genders 22 Orientations Agender is an identity under the nonbinary and transgender umbrellas.


Agender individuals find that they have no gender identity, although some define this more as having a gender identity that is neutral. I am agender because I do not identify as being any specific gender. I am not an 'it' and I am not 'broken,' just neutral in the gender game! Even though I may choose to dress traditionally 'masculine' one day and 'feminine' the next, it does not determine my gender.

Gender roles and the concept of heteronormativity is outdated and harmful to non binary people. Agender is a term that refers to people who feel they don't align with a gender, have a distinct lack of gender, or even a neutral gender. Having the characteristics or nature of both male and female. I was born and identify as a woman, but I am more more masculine in my presentation.

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Androgynous, I equate with androgyne, which is my gender. It's a mix of masculine and feminine qualities that stands alone as its own gender.

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If genders were colors, it would be purple. Most people listen to my explanations and say, "Oh, so you're just a tomboy. And, most importantly, this is all by my own definition, not anyone else's. Aramis Austin, Texas Androgynous Transgender. Androgynous: My gender expression is between male and female. Bigender is a gender identity that falls under the non-binary umbrella. To identify as bigender generally means you identify as two genders. You could identify as both at the same time. You can go back and forth between two genders.

What is demisexuality?

Bigender: I identify as both male and female. Gender is fluid. It isn't set in stone. I'm not sure who I am. Please don't make assumptions.

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Mason Michigan Demisexual Pansexual Bigender. Cisgender and cissexual often abbreviated to simply cis describe related types of gender identity where individuals' experiences of their own gender match the sex they were ased at birth. Cis Man: I was ased the male gender at birth, I am comfortable with this.

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I was born female-sexed and feeling internally like a female too. I don't always dress or act like the typical feminine ideal.

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I think "masculine" and "feminine" as rigid concepts are outdated, but I also understand wanting to feel more femme, butch, androgyne, etc. Cis woman - a person who is born with the biological characteristics that are attributed to women ex: chromosomes XX, vagina, uterus, ovaries, etc.

What is demisexuality and how does it differ from asexuality?

I am comfortable with the gender ased to me at birth—woman—but I recognize gender as culturally determined and dependent, and I swing back and forth between a masculine and a feminine personal expression. I am fortunate to feel happy with the gender I was ased at birth. Cis Woman: a person whose gender matches the female gender they were ased at birth. Gender fluidity conveys a wider, more flexible range of gender expression, with interests and behaviors that may even change from day to day. Gender fluid people do not feel confined by restrictive boundaries of stereotypical expectations of women and men.

For some people, gender fluidity extends beyond behavior and interests, and actually serves to specifically define their gender identity. In other words, a person may feel they are more female on some days and more male on others, or possibly feel that neither term describes them accurately.

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Their identity is seen as being gender fluid. Genderfluid: when I wake up in the morning, sometimes I feel more masculine, sometimes more feminine. I try to dress and act accordingly. I find identity to be quite fluid, so the terms meanings shift over time. Not fitting into the gender binary, and not preferring any gender, nonbinary or not, when looking for a partner. I wish people would get that gender fluid is a real thing, and that sometimes everything fits, sometimes nothing fits.

What does it mean to be demisexual?

Bren West Virginia Genderfluid Pansexual. A person whose gender identity is neither man nor woman, is between or beyond genders, or is some combination of genders. This identity is usually related to or in reaction to the social construction of gender, gender stereotypes and the gender binary system.

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Some genderequeer people identify under the transgender umbrella while others do not. Genderqueer: synonymous with my usage of queer.

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Queer: connotes both a non-binary gender identity, and potential attraction to people regardless of their position on the gender spectrum. This is important too, because how I am perceived as a lover matters e. Genderqueer means that I don't always feel like I have the same gender. Mel Demisexual Queer Genderqueer Transmasculine. I learned this at a young age and it was only recently that I realized what had happened. I am most comfortable having my gender confused.

I realize this is horrible and traumatic to transfolk, and I probably should correct them. I respond to any pronoun. They all feel correct. Biologically, I never felt like a woman- though I have large breasts, I do not see my body as feminine, if not more masculine or in between. I have more hair than the average female for example.

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I've always kept my hair short. Hobbies of mine are very masculine, and even the feminine ones sewing, knitted are masculine in result. I have no wish to be a man, but I always feel in between. I accept my body, but resent "girliness" nor feel a connection to the typical woman experience. Genderqueer fits me best, though I will dress feminine from time to time. I mostly look and dress like a young man. For me personally, it means that I do not consider gender a prominent, indispensable part of me; I think of it as secondary.

I do not have a wish to change my biological sex of female but I do not feel like "woman" or "man", for that matter fit me wholly. I recognize I might act in feminine ways more often because of my socialization. I may also act in masculine or non-gendered ways naturally and without qualms. Behavior or gender expression by an individual that does not match masculine and feminine gender norms. Just cause I've got a beard and a square frame, doesn't mean I'm just another guy.

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My issue is that i feel gender-nonconforming, which to me means the same as genderqueer: i am female but do not feel like a woman. A binary division may largely be possible biologically, but socially when i'm with people i just don't care if they're male or female or gay or straight etc; and least of all do i feel like a woman, or worse, one of "the girls".

People are just people to me; i like to be treated, and treat others, as merely human. All the office talk of 'men' v 'women' tires me enormously and just distracts us from so many much more useful topics of conversation.